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 136                 Later Life Letters
 136               </h1>
 143               <div class="well">
 144                 <p class="bold">
 144                   SCOPE OF THIS CHAPTER
 144                 </p>
 145                 The later life letter is written by child's social worker, and will be given to child when
                     they are considered old enough by their adoptive parent(s). It is an expanded version of the
 145                 <a href="g_life_story_book.html">
 145                   Life Story Books Guidance
 145                 </a>
 145                 and gives more detail of the child's history and the decision making process.
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 155               <div class="section">
 156                 <h2 id="introduction">
 156                   1. Introduction
 156                 </h2>
 157                 <p>
 157                   Later Life Letters are written by the child's social worker to a child who is being adopted,
                       with the aim of helping the child understand their past, increase their self esteem and
                       strengthen their resilience.  The letter is given to the prospective adopters at an
                       appropriate time after the Adoption Order is made - usually within 10 working days of the
                       adoption ceremony, i.e. the ceremony to celebrate the making of the adoption order. The
                       adopters should then give the letter to the child at an appropriate time in the future.
 157                 </p>
 158               </div>
 159               <div class="section1">
 159               </div>
 165               <div class="section">
 165                 <h2 id="purpose_letter">
 165                   2. Purpose of the Later Life Letter
 165                 </h2>
 166                 <p>
 166                   The Later Life Letter should explain the child's history from birth and provide an
                       explanation of why they were adopted, including the reasons why they could not live with
                       their birth family.
 166                 </p>
 167                 <p>
 167                   The child is the focus of the letter and it must be remembered when writing the letter that
                       the child has a need to know why they were placed for adoption. The letter should be able to
                       give the child a personal sense of their own history and a sense of their value and worth,
                       something that a court report or the Child's Permanence Report (CPR) cannot provide.
 167                 </p>
 168                 <p>
 168                   The letter should, whenever possible, include the views of all the people involved in the
                       adoption process, including the birth family.
 168                 </p>
 169                 <p>
 169                   Remember that every child will see the letter at a different age, and so the letter, whilst
                       being truthful, must be written so that a child can understand it.
 169                 </p>
 170                 <p>
 170                   Our expectation would be that the child sees the letter when they are around 10-12 years,
                       but the final decision on timing is at the discretion of the adoptive parents. In very
                       difficult situations (e.g. incest, mental health problems, abuse) it may be better to write
                       two letters. The second one for when the child is in their mid-teens, and better able to
                       understand their history.
 170                 </p>
 171                 The letter is in addition to the child's Life Story Book and should never be a substitute for
                     the book -
 171                 <a href="g_life_story_book.html">
 171                   Life Story Books Guidance
 171                 </a>
 171                 . The main difference between the Later Life Letter and the Life Story Book lies in the depth
                     of the detail being shared with the child. Thus, more detailed and sensitive information
                     should be included in the Later Life letter as the letter will be shared with the child at a
                     later age when they are emotionally able to understand and deal with the information.
 171               </div>
 172               <div class="section1">
 172               </div>
 178               <div class="section">
 178                 <h2 id="what_important">
 178                   3. What is important? Everything!
 178                 </h2>
 179                 <p>
 179                   The information may be lost if not gathered together now. Experience shows that adult
                       adoptees are eager for information collected at this time, even if it is painful.
 179                 </p>
 180                 <p>
 180                   The letter can be personalised by the social worker who knew the birth parents and the child
                       at the time of the placement.
 180                 </p>
 181                 <p>
 181                   Be confident - don't be intimidated by the task. It is difficult but not impossible and
                       important for the child / young person in terms of their identity.
 181                 </p>
 182                 You have all the information you need. Think of yourself as an adopted person, what
                     information would you want, what questions would you ask your birth parents?
 182               </div>
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 189                 <h2 id="there_no_right">
 189                   4. There is no Right or Wrong way to do This
 189                 </h2>
 190                 <p>
 190                   The attached are only to be used as 
 190                   <a href="#example_one">
 190                     examples
 190                   </a>
 190                    - to give you ideas. What you produce will have to be something that you feel comfortable
                       in producing, in each case the written style of the social worker and the information
                       available will be different. Try to avoid copying information from social work documents;
                       the letter needs to be personal to the child.
 190                 </p>
 191                 It is a good idea to write the letter in sections, for instance the legal situation could be
                     separate from the more personal information. Initially adopters and the adopted child will
                     need a simple explanation to share with their family and friends. As stated earlier, in very
                     difficult situations it is a good idea to have two letters.
 191               </div>
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 198                 <h2 id="what_information">
 198                   5. What Information Should be Included?
 198                 </h2>
 199                 <h3>
 199                   5.1 Beginning the letter
 199                 </h3>
 200                 <ul>
 201                   <li>
 201                     Begin by introducing yourself;
 201                   </li>
 202                   <li>
 202                     Acknowledge that some time will have passed before the letter is read and that the child
                         may not remember you;
 202                   </li>
 203                   <li>
 203                     Talk about your role in relation to the child, the length of your involvement, and the
                         reason for writing the letter;
 203                   </li>
 204                   <li>
 204                     Mention other previous significant social workers who were involved (if that is the case)
                         - give their names, and when and why they were involved;
 204                   </li>
 205                   <li>
 205                     Acknowledge that it might be difficult for the young person to read the letter and that
                         they can ask of help from their adoptive parents while reading it.
 205                   </li>
 206                 </ul>
 207                 <h3>
 207                   5.2 Write about the mother's pregnancy and the child's birth
 207                 </h3>
 208                 <p>
 208                   It is important to include as much information possible about the mother's pregnancy and the
                       child's birth. This is often the information that children would like to know.
 208                 </p>
 209                 <p>
 209                   Include:
 209                 </p>
 210                 <ul>
 211                   <li>
 211                     Date and time of birth;
 211                   </li>
 212                   <li>
 212                     Name of the hospital;
 212                   </li>
 213                   <li>
 213                     Weight;
 213                   </li>
 214                   <li>
 214                     Experience of pregnancy;
 214                   </li>
 215                   <li>
 215                     Length of labour;
 215                   </li>
 216                   <li>
 216                     Type of delivery;
 216                   </li>
 217                   <li>
 217                     Time spent in the hospital with birth mother;
 217                   </li>
 218                   <li>
 218                     Who was present;
 218                   </li>
 219                   <li>
 219                     What happened next?
 219                   </li>
 220                   <li>
 220                     Who cared for the child after their birth?
 220                   </li>
 221                 </ul>
 222                 <h3>
 222                   5.3 Include Information about the Child's Life Before and After Care
 222                 </h3>
 223                 <p>
 223                   It is important to include all facts related to:
 223                 </p>
 224                 <ul>
 225                   <li>
 225                     Where the child lived – include names of caregivers, addresses, dates, description of
                         caregivers and their family and talk about why they had to move;
 225                   </li>
 226                   <li>
 226                     Names and descriptions of any nurseries or schools attended;
 226                   </li>
 227                   <li>
 227                     The child's development milestones – such as when they said their first words, had their
                         first tooth, took their first steps, learned to read;
 227                   </li>
 228                   <li>
 228                     The child's particular characteristics, sayings, activities, interests at various stages;
 228                   </li>
 229                   <li>
 229                     Details of any child's friends and pets.
 229                   </li>
 230                 </ul>
 231                 <h3>
 231                   5.4 Describe the Birth Family Members
 231                 </h3>
 232                 <p>
 232                   It is important to focus on those family members who have had the most significant
                       relationships with the child and had an influence on the child's experience. Details of
                       other family members who were not significant to the child's experience could be found in
                       the CPR or in the genogram and the letter can refer to these additional sources if
                       necessary.
 232                 </p>
 233                 <p>
 233                   What to focus on:
 233                 </p>
 234                 <ul>
 235                   <li>
 235                     The birth family's situation at the time you became involved in the case – where the
                         children were living (mention the house, surroundings, etc) and the situation of the birth
                         parents and siblings;
 235                   </li>
 236                   <li>
 236                     Describe the family members:
 237                     <ul>
 238                       <li>
 238                         First name;
 238                       </li>
 239                       <li>
 239                         Date and place of birth if known;
 239                       </li>
 240                       <li>
 240                         Their age when the child was born;
 240                       </li>
 241                       <li>
 241                         Ethnic origin;
 241                       </li>
 242                       <li>
 242                         Physical description, appearance and personality.
 242                       </li>
 243                     </ul>
 244                   </li>
 245                   <li>
 245                     Include as much information possible about birth parents:
 246                     <ul>
 247                       <li>
 247                         Their background and upbringing;
 247                       </li>
 248                       <li>
 248                         Academic and employment history;
 248                       </li>
 249                       <li>
 249                         Interests;
 249                       </li>
 250                       <li>
 250                         Health;
 250                       </li>
 251                       <li>
 251                         The parents relationship;
 251                       </li>
 252                       <li>
 252                         Use the term 'birth mother/father' to avoid confusion with adoptive parents.
 252                       </li>
 253                     </ul>
 254                   </li>
 255                   <li>
 255                     Include information about siblings if they were not placed together. Are they adopted? If
                         they live with birth parents, explain why. The child needs to know what happened to their
                         brothers and sisters, who cares for them, and if relevant, why there is no contact. Be
                         careful to give only first names for all birth relatives and do not use addresses or other
                         identifying information. Be mindful about the amount of information you include, it should
                         be long enough for the child to know what happened to their siblings, but remember that
                         the child is the focus of the letter.
 255                   </li>
 256                 </ul>
 257                 <h3>
 257                   5.5 Talk about reasons for adoption
 257                 </h3>
 258                 <p>
 258                   There will already be enough information to help describe the events that led to the child
                       being placed for adoption. However the key thing about the later life letter is that it
                       gives the opportunity to explain these events in a more personal way.
 258                 </p>
 259                 <p>
 259                   The following explanations are found to be the most common for why the birth parents could
                       not care for their children:
 259                 </p>
 260                 <ul>
 261                   <li>
 261                     Their parents were struggling with problems or troubles of their own;
 261                   </li>
 262                   <li>
 262                     Their parents have never learnt how to look after and care for others;
 262                   </li>
 263                   <li>
 263                     Their parents might be too ill;
 263                   </li>
 264                   <li>
 264                     Their parents may have been shown the wrong way to look after their children.
 264                   </li>
 265                 </ul>
 266                 <p>
 266                   It is important to include clear explanations of when and why the big decisions were made,
                       and who made them. The child needs to know the reason behind these decisions and need to
                       have a confirmation that the decision was in their interest and the best option for them.
 266                 </p>
 267                 <p>
 267                   The letter should also include, wherever possible the birth parent's attitude to the
                       adoption and their hope for the child's future.
 267                 </p>
 268                 <h3>
 268                   5.6 Explain how the family was chosen
 268                 </h3>
 269                 <p>
 269                   Write about:
 269                 </p>
 270                 <ul>
 271                   <li>
 271                     Some details of the adoptive family, including the process of choosing and the reasons for
                         choosing the current family;
 271                   </li>
 272                   <li>
 272                     The child's introduction to the adoptive family – the process of introductions, reactions,
                         etc.;
 272                   </li>
 273                   <li>
 273                     Date of moving to the new family;
 273                   </li>
 274                   <li>
 274                     Final visits with birth parents or other birth family members – mention who was involved,
                         where the visit/s took place, what happened, positive comments made and any gifts given.
 274                   </li>
 275                 </ul>
 276                 <p>
 276                   Talk to the adopters about the letter(s). When telling the child's story, it is important to
                       be positive as well as negative. We rely on the adopters passing on this information, so
                       involve them. Ask if you can talk about their hopes, fears and feelings at the time of the
                       introductory meetings and placements. Can you include the reason why they wanted to adopt?
 276                 </p>
 277                 <p>
 277                   Give details of how any agreed contact was decided - whether it is &quot;face to face&quot;
                       or Letter Box. The child needs to know that birth parents and other relatives want to hear
                       about their progress, and that the adoptive parents agreed to the contact arrangements prior
                       to placement.
 277                 </p>
 278                 <p>
 278                   When you have drafted the letter(s) in consultation with the adopters' social worker you
                       should show it/them to the adopters; they may have extra information that needs to be added.
                       They may also wish to ask for some amendments/different wording. They need to feel
                       comfortable with the content as this will be reflected in the way they help their child
                       later with its contents.
 278                 </p>
 279                 In the letters the birth parents should be called by their first names, and the adopters
                     described as &quot;your parents&quot;.
 279               </div>
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 280               </div>
 286               <div class="section">
 286                 <h2 id="how_write">
 286                   6. How? Write it to the Child
 286                 </h2>
 287                 <p>
 287                   Have a look at the 
 287                   <a href="#example_one">
 287                     examples
 287                   </a>
 287                   , and then be creative and imaginative.
 287                 </p>
 288                 <p>
 288                   You can write a letter or letters.
 288                 </p>
 289                 <p>
 289                   It could be a book.
 289                 </p>
 290                 <p>
 290                   It could be a loose leaf folder.
 290                 </p>
 291                 <p>
 291                   It could be a combination of all the above or anything else you feel is appropriate.
 291                 </p>
 292                 <p>
 292                   Remember the age at which you want the child to get this information and write it to the
                       child at that age.
 292                 </p>
 293                 <p>
 293                   Sometimes there should be two letters or if you use a loose leaf binder, sections could be
                       geared to different ages.
 293                 </p>
 294                 <p>
 294                   If the placement situation was difficult - e.g. there were legal problems, incest, rape,
                       abuse, they could be in a separate section to be seen later in the child's life. These
                       events need to be truthfully detailed.
 294                 </p>
 295                 <p>
 295                   The basic information needs to be given to the child as early as possible, and this should
                       include the true reason for the adoptive placement.
 295                 </p>
 296                 <p>
 296                   Brothers and sisters must have separate letters even when placed together, and this includes
                       twins.
 296                 </p>
 297                 <p>
 297                   You should also give the date the Adoption Order was granted, the name of the court, and the
                       names and office bases of all the social workers and family placement/adoption social
                       workers involved prior to and after the placement.
 297                 </p>
 298                 <p>
 298                   Date and sign the letter. Keep a copy on file and send the letter to the adopters' social
                       worker who will give it to the adopters, along with guidance on how to use the letter, and
                       explain their responsibilities in sharing the information with the child at a later date,
                       i.e. that the information should be made available to the child at a time the adopters
                       consider is appropriate, but no later than the child's 18th birthday.
 298                 </p>
 299                 <p>
 299                   The adopters should be asked for written confirmation of receipt of the letter and intention
                       to share the information with the child.
 299                 </p>
 300                 <p>
 300                   At the beginning of the letter introduce yourself. Acknowledge that some time will have
                       passed before the letter is read and that the child may not remember you. Talk about your
                       role in relation to the child, the length of your involvement, and the reason for writing
                       the letter. Mention other previous significant social workers who were involved (if that is
                       the case) - give their names, and when and why they were involved. Acknowledge that it might
                       be difficult for the person to read the letter and that they can ask of help from their
                       adoptive parents while reading it.
 300                 </p>
 301               </div>
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 308               <div class="section">
 308                 <h2 id="letter">
 308                   7. Letter For an Adopted Child
 308                 </h2>
 309                 <h3 id="example_one">
 309                   Example 1 - Straightforward placement of child whose birth parents requested adoption
 309                 </h3>
 310                 <p>
 310                   CONFIDENTIAL (date and on headed paper)
 310                 </p>
 311                 <p>
 311                   Dear Anna
 311                 </p>
 312                 <p>
 312                   You might not remember me as you were very young when I met you. My name is Helen– you can
                       find a photo of me in your life story book, and I was your social worker when you were
                       little. A social worker is someone who helps parents to look after their children and if
                       they cannot do that, find new parents for those children.
 312                 </p>
 313                 <p>
 313                   I am writing this letter to you so that you can understand a bit about your past, the
                       reasons why you were adopted and how you came to live with your Mum and Dad and became Anna
                       Wood. I wrote this letter when you were little and I have tried to think of the questions
                       that you may have when you are older and I hope I haven't left anything out.
 313                 </p>
 314                 <p>
 314                   I knew Sarah and John, and you, right from the beginning of your life.
 314                 </p>
 315                 <p>
 315                   I first met Sarah when she was about seven months pregnant with you. She was living with her
                       mother, step-father, brother, sister and John, at her parents' home in West Yorkshire. All
                       the immediate family knew of her pregnancy, but no-one else. She lived in a small village
                       and her mother, at that time, ran a small business, so it was quite difficult to keep
                       &quot;secrets&quot;.
 315                 </p>
 316                 <p>
 316                   When Sarah, and later John, came to see me it was clear that they wanted to do the very best
                       that they could for you. They were still students, had not lived together independently, and
                       did not feel ready to settle down and provide the sort of settled lifestyle they wanted for
                       you.
 316                 </p>
 317                 <p>
 317                   It was arranged that Sarah should go and live with foster carers, Sue and Mike, near
                       Wakefield. She remained with them for the last part of her pregnancy and briefly returned to
                       them after your birth. John got some relief work on a local farm, and lodgings nearby, so he
                       was in touch with Sarah during this time. Sarah's mother and step-father also visited
                       regularly. Sarah got on very well with Sue and when you were born on Wednesday, 20 October
                       2001, at 18.45 hours at Wakefield Maternity Hospital, Sue was present throughout your
                       delivery, having driven Sarah to Hospital. John and Sarah's mother also arrived later, so it
                       was quite a party!
 317                 </p>
 318                 <p>
 318                   Everything about your birth was normal and you weighed 2.805kgs. There is a photograph of
                       you taken shortly after your birth, which your parents will have shown you. You looked very
                       sweet and had lots of dark brown hair. Sarah had decided that she did not want to see you,
                       but she saw you as you were born. Sarah spent a few more hours in Hospital and went back to
                       Sue's house and stayed with her for 2 days.
 318                 </p>
 319                 <p>
 319                   You stayed in Hospital until 22 October, but Sue visited you during the time you were on
                       your own there. Sue and I took you home to her house, and you remained there until you moved
                       to live with your parents and Robert on 2nd December 2001. You were a very contented baby,
                       sleeping and feeding well, and you were given lots of cuddles by Sue and her family.
 319                 </p>
 320                 <p>
 320                   Sarah and John were involved in choosing your parents for you and they met them on the 26
                       November in my office. The meeting went well, although everyone was nervous. Sarah and John
                       had a clear idea of the sort of family they wanted you to be part of, and felt your parents
                       were exactly what they wanted for you.
 320                 </p>
 321                 <p>
 321                   Sarah and John said &quot;goodbye&quot; to you at Sue's house on the evening of 1 December
                       2001. The day before your parents took you home.
 321                 </p>
 322                 <p>
 322                   Let me tell you a little about Sarah and John.
 322                 </p>
 323                 <p>
 323                   Sarah was born on 16 November 1982. She was an attractive woman of 5ft 8ins tall, weighing
                       about 9 stone. She had long blondish/brown hair, blue/green eyes and the sort of skin that
                       tans easily. Sarah was a very friendly sort of person, not at all shy, and able to say
                       exactly what she thought. Sarah was very close to her family, and continued to live with
                       them for a long time after your birth. Sarah's family included her mother, Helen, her
                       stepfather, Peter, her full sister Elizabeth, who was born on 21 July 1984, and
                       half-brother, Michael born on 18 January 1987. Her step-father was a farm manager so she has
                       usually lived on farms. For a time her mother had a milk round as well as running a small
                       business.
 323                 </p>
 324                 <p>
 324                   Sarah attended school until she was 17 years old and left with GCSEs in English, Art,
                       German, Business Studies, Geography, Typing, Sociology and Biology. She thought about doing
                       &quot;A&quot; levels but decided to go to Agricultural College instead. She gained a Diploma
                       in Agriculture, and since then has worked in farming. She had ambitions to pursue this
                       career and get further qualifications.
 324                 </p>
 325                 <p>
 325                   Sarah's passion has always been horses, and she regularly hunts and participates at
                       &quot;point to point&quot; meetings. When I knew her she had two horses. She is interested
                       in all sports, especially Badminton and Tennis. She also belonged to the Pony Club and the
                       Local Young Farmers Group.
 325                 </p>
 326                 <p>
 326                   John was born on 17 September 1981. He is 5ft 9ins tall and weighs about 10 stone. He is
                       very slim. He has blue eyes and dark brown curly hair. He is a quiet and gentle person, very
                       friendly and easy-going.
 326                 </p>
 327                 <p>
 327                   John's family are farmers. He grew up living with his father, mother and two sisters, Kate,
                       who is two years older than him, and Julie who is 8 years younger. John was not so close to
                       his family as Sarah was to hers, and it was a long time before he told them about your
                       birth.
 327                 </p>
 328                 <p>
 328                   John left school at 16 with GCSEs in Maths, English, Science, Art and Design, Economics and
                       Metalwork. He then worked on his father's farm before attending Agricultural College. He
                       left College with a Certificate in Agriculture. When I knew him he was doing general farm
                       work for his father, Sarah's step-father and other farmers on a contract basis. Eventually
                       he expected to be much more involved in running his father's farm.
 328                 </p>
 329                 <p>
 329                   John's interests were horse-riding, pool, shooting, swimming, biking and cars. Like Sarah he
                       belonged to the Young Farmers and various other clubs.
 329                 </p>
 330                 <p>
 330                   I remember he liked cars and having a very &quot;fast&quot; journey with him and Sarah when
                       he went to meet Sue and Mike for the first time. Sarah was very cross and told him to slow
                       down, which he didn't.
 330                 </p>
 331                 <p>
 331                   Sarah and John met at College about 16 months before you were born. They had a lot in common
                       and got on very well. They remained friends after your birth.
 331                 </p>
 332                 <p>
 332                   Sarah and John both enjoyed being single, without responsibilities. They were quite
                       ambitious in their future careers, and neither wanted to settle down yet. The decision to
                       place you for adoption was made by both John and Sarah. They thought very seriously before
                       coming to this decision and never changed their minds. They both felt that, at this stage in
                       their lives, they could not offer the stability and security they wanted for you. They were
                       very happy when they became aware that your parents could offer you all the things they
                       wanted for you, and pleased that you could live with them and be adopted by them.
 332                 </p>
 333                 <p>
 333                   Your Adoption Order was made at Leeds County Court on 16 November 2003. You and all your
                       adoptive family and Jane Bloggs (your parents' social worker), and I all attended Court. It
                       was a very happy occasion and photos were taken - inside the Court with the Judge, and
                       outside the Court, I am sure you will have seen them.
 333                 </p>
 334                 <p>
 334                   I hope that what I have written in this letter will help you understand how you came to live
                       with your parents. Perhaps, after you have read this letter, you should discuss it with
                       them, as they will be able to help you sort out anything that seems unclear.
 334                 </p>
 335                 <p>
 335                   With all good wishes for the future.
 335                 </p>
 336                 <p>
 336                   Signed:
 336                 </p>
 337                 <p>
 337                   Social Worker or
 337                 </p>
 338                 Your usual work title.
 339                 <h3 id="example_two">
 339                   Example 2 - Letter where birth mother chose not to tell birth father about the child, the
                       birth mother continued to care for two older children.
 339                 </h3>
 340                 <p>
 340                   CONFIDENTIAL (Date and on headed paper)
 340                 </p>
 341                 <p>
 341                   Dear Simon
 341                 </p>
 342                 <p>
 342                   Your parents will already have told you a great deal about your adoption. I thought it might
                       be helpful if I wrote something down so that you can read about your birth parents and about
                       how it was that you came to be adopted.
 342                 </p>
 343                 <p>
 343                   You were born in Wakefield Hospital on 15 January 2001 at 4.27 in the morning. You weighed
                       2.940kgms, you were 48cms long and your head circumference was 33cms.
 343                 </p>
 344                 <p>
 344                   Your birth mother's name was Judith. She had come to Wakefield in September because she was
                       unhappy with where she lived. She knew that she was pregnant but told no-one about your
                       expected arrival until two weeks before you were born. The doctors thought that you were
                       probably 3 to 4 weeks early. Judith cuddled you just after you were born and after that you
                       were looked after in the Special Baby Unit. Judith came to say goodbye to you before she
                       left the Hospital later in the day. At the time you were very pink and wrinkly with big blue
                       eyes and lovely little chin. Everyone who saw you thought that you were a long skinny baby
                       with lovely fair hair.
 344                 </p>
 345                 <p>
 345                   Judith had only recently begun to plan for you because she'd recently been through a
                       difficult time so she asked her social worker if she could arrange for you to go and live
                       with another family until she was sure what was best for you. This family were foster carers
                       Beryl and Dennis. You went to stay with them on 19 January 2001 and stayed there until 14
                       May 2001.
 345                 </p>
 346                 <p>
 346                   Beryl and Dennis had a grown up family and you were quite a favourite with everyone. You
                       particularly liked to know what was going on and used to yell if you were left in the quiet.
 346                 </p>
 347                 <p>
 347                   Judith and I began to talk about whether adoption within her family would be a possibility
                       but although her older brother John and his family thought about it they felt, for lots of
                       reasons, that although they loved you, they wouldn't feel able to offer you what they wanted
                       for you.
 347                 </p>
 348                 <p>
 348                   It was after this that Judith decided to make sure that you had a very special family.
 348                 </p>
 349                 <p>
 349                   During this time Judith had lots of talks with her social worker, and myself, and finally
                       reached the conclusion that adoption by another family would be the best solution for you.
 349                 </p>
 350                 <p>
 350                   Judith was always sure that she loved you and wanted you to have a happy, settled family to
                       grow up in.
 350                 </p>
 351                 <p>
 351                   Judith, your birth mother, was born on 7 November 1968 in Coventry and when you were born
                       she was 33 years old. Judith was 5ft 3ins tall, slim with large blue/green eyes and her most
                       striking feature was her dark, curly red hair that she wore long. She was quietly spoken but
                       had strong views on things. Judith enjoyed school but left at 15 years without exams. She
                       enjoyed doing projects, particularly history. Judith had been close to her family as a young
                       child, but she found their restrictions difficult as she got older, she therefore left home
                       at 15.
 351                 </p>
 352                 <p>
 352                   At the time of your birth, her father, Tony, an engineer, was 55, her mother Doreen, was 56
                       and a housewife. Her older brother Steve was 35 years old. He worked as a bus and tram
                       driver in Blackpool. He lived with his wife and their daughter Clare, then 7 years old.
 352                 </p>
 353                 <p>
 353                   Judith's only sister was called Carol. She was 4 years older. She had three children - Mark
                       14, Debbie 12, and Anna aged 3 years. They were all living in Coventry - Judith's younger
                       brother, Ian, was working as a teacher in Liverpool. He and his wife had Susie aged 9 years.
 353                 </p>
 354                 <p>
 354                   By the time that I knew Judith, she had fallen out with her father, but she saw her mother
                       Doreen every week. Doreen was very concerned about what would happen to you and she bought a
                       teddy and I'm sure that your adoptive parents will have kept it safe for you.
 354                 </p>
 355                 <p>
 355                   After she left school, Judith lived with her sister but when she found herself pregnant with
                       Darren, born 18.3.87, she went back to live with her parents. She then met Joe. They had
                       Peter together, born 27.9.88. Unfortunately they weren't happy together. Joe was violent and
                       cruel and eventually Judith went with the children to live in a Women's Refuge in
                       Newcastle-on-Tyne.
 355                 </p>
 356                 <p>
 356                   It was during the time at Newcastle that she met your father. They were together for
                       sometime, but he became violent and so Judith left Newcastle for Wakefield. Your birth
                       father was called Colin. He was 29 years old at the time of your birth. He had light brown
                       straight hair with hazel eyes and a moustache. Judith had little contact with his family but
                       she said Colin had told her that his mother and father had split up when he was young.
                       He'd been a "bit of a lad" and had at one time attended a special school for children who
                       were having problems. Colin hadn't done well at school and had left school at 15 with no
                       exams. He had various jobs. At one time he was in the army, where he enjoyed parachuting. He
                       left the army because he hurt his back. Mostly he liked motorbikes.
 356                 </p>
 357                 <p>
 357                   After a short while of going out together Colin moved in to live with Judith, Darren and
                       Peter. Within a short time Judith realised she had made an awful mistake. She and Colin had
                       lots of rows and he was very unkind to them all. Eventually Judith felt that she had had
                       enough and came to Wakefield to a place that was found for her by Women's Aid. By this time,
                       Judith knew she was having you but decided not to tell Colin.
 357                 </p>
 358                 <p>
 358                   She didn't tell anyone else until two weeks before you were born. Her social worker, Liz
                       Brown, came to see you just after you'd been born and talked with Judith about her plans for
                       you.
 358                 </p>
 359                 <p>
 359                   Judith thought a great deal about what was best for you. When the idea of a family adoption
                       wasn't possible she began to talk with me about the sort of family that she wanted to become
                       your family.
 359                 </p>
 360                 <p>
 360                   I was the social worker who was with her when she chose Gordon, Caroline and Jason to be
                       your family. She liked the sound of them because they liked lots of cuddles and sounded as
                       though they enjoyed life together. Judith was particularly pleased because they already had
                       one little boy, as one of the things that was important to her was that you shouldn't be an
                       only child. She wanted you to be part of a loving family and knew that because of other
                       problems she would not be able to provide you with what she wanted for you.
 360                 </p>
 361                 <p>
 361                   I expect Caroline and Gordon have told you about their own disappointments about being
                       unable to have children of their own and how they'd already adopted Jason. They had come to
                       this agency for help to get another child and were waiting to hear. They were very excited
                       when they heard that Judith had chosen them and were keen to see you.
 361                 </p>
 362                 <p>
 362                   They first visited you at your foster carers, Beryl and Dennis' home on 13 May 2001, when
                       they were both bowled over by your smile. They quickly decided that they wanted to take you
                       home as soon as they could.
 362                 </p>
 363                 <p>
 363                   They were very keen to meet Judith and this meeting took place on 14 May 2001. I am sure
                       that your parents will have told you about it. We all sat around a large table and Judith
                       showed your parents photographs of her family and told them a bit about herself and they did
                       the same. She liked your parents a lot and thought that she'd made a good choice for you. It
                       reassured her to think that they were people who were loving to each other and to your
                       brother Jason.
 363                 </p>
 364                 <p>
 364                   After this meeting your parents took you home.
 364                 </p>
 365                 <p>
 365                   It was not an easy decision for Judith to make but she made it knowing that you were going
                       to a loving home.
 365                 </p>
 366                 <p>
 366                   Your adoption was arranged by the Family Services Directorate in Wakefield and the social
                       worker who knew your birth mother was Liz Brown. Sue Jones was the social worker who worked
                       with your adoptive parents.
 366                 </p>
 367                 <p>
 367                   The Adoption Order was made in the Leeds County Court on 3 December 2001.
 367                 </p>
 368                 <p>
 368                   With very best wishes for the future
 368                 </p>
 369                 <p>
 369                   Yours sincerely
 369                 </p>
 370                 <p>
 370                   Signed:
 370                 </p>
 371                 <p>
 371                   Social Worker or
 371                 </p>
 372                 <p>
 372                   Your usual working title
 372                 </p>
 373                 <h3 id="example_three">
 373                   Example 3 - Difficult and complicated birth family history - letter has been written in
                       sections to facilitate giving information to the child at different times.
 373                 </h3>
 374                 <p>
 374                   (Front Sheet)
 374                 </p>
 375                 <p>
 375                   <span class="bold">
 375                     JOSHUA'S SPECIAL BOOK
 375                     <br>
 376                   </span>
 376                   (To be kept in a safe place)
 376                 </p>
 377                 <p class="bold">
 377                   YOUR BIRTH:
 377                 </p>
 378                 <p>
 378                   You were born in Wakefield on Tuesday, 11 May 2001 at approximately 8.00 am.
 378                 </p>
 379                 <p>
 379                   Your birth weight was 3.3 kilograms.
 379                 </p>
 380                 <p>
 380                   When I visited the hospital with my team manager later that same morning I saw you beside
                       your mother's bed in your own cot. You were a very alert baby already aware of what was
                       going on around you, and with a plentiful head of mid-brown hair. Your birth mother, Mary,
                       told me that your birth had been a straightforward delivery without any complications.
 380                 </p>
 381                 <p>
 381                   She also told me that your birth father, John, had been with her in the delivery room when
                       you were born.
 381                 </p>
 382                 <p>
 382                   We discussed with Mary our concerns for your future care.
 382                 </p>
 383                 <p>
 383                   When Mary insisted that she would be leaving the hospital with you to return home with John,
                       in spite of all our advice that she should remain in hospital with you, we took the
                       necessary legal steps, via the Courts, to ensure that you remained in the security of the
                       hospital. Your birth mother, Mary, eventually returned home at about 5.00 pm and you
                       remained on the ward at the hospital.
 383                 </p>
 384                 <p>
 384                   Both Mary and John returned to see you on 13 and 14 May and saw you in the presence of
                       either the nurses or myself.
 384                 </p>
 385                 <p>
 385                   By the 14 May I had found a foster family who could look after you temporarily and I
                       introduced them to Mary and John when you were ready to move from hospital.
 385                 </p>
 386                 <p class="bold">
 386                   LEGAL BACKGROUND TO LOCAL AUTHORITY DECISION FOR YOU TO BE ACCOMMODATED BY FOSTER CARERS
                       FOLLOWING YOUR BIRTH, AND THE BACKGROUND CIRCUMSTANCES:
 386                 </p>
 387                 <p>
 387                   IMPORTANT. Joshua - this is likely to be an especially difficult and painful chapter for
                       you, and I think you should think of talking through its contents with your parents or some
                       other trusted person.
 387                 </p>
 388                 <p>
 388                   Since 2000 your birth mother Mary had been living with your birth father John. John had been
                       charged with very serious offences, which you can discuss with your parents or a social
                       worker when you are older.
 388                 </p>
 389                 <p>
 389                   When in March 2000 we received information that Mary was pregnant the we arranged to hold a
                       Child Protection Conference (involving amongst others the social workers in the Social
                       Services Department) in order to make a plan to protect you after your birth. Mary and John
                       attended this meeting and were aware of the conference decision that the local authority
                       would seek an Emergency Protection Order should Mary continue to live with John, whilst an
                       up-dated risk assessment was made regarding his attitude and intentions. In the event Mary
                       and John did not agree to this suggestion.
 389                 </p>
 390                 <p>
 390                   Following your birth on 11 May, it was explained to Mary and John, both by myself and by the
                       Guardian ad Litem (an independent person appointed by the Court), that the Emergency
                       Protection Order I had obtained from the Courts did not prevent Mary remaining with, and
                       caring for, you in hospital. However, she chose not to stay and left the same afternoon in
                       the company of John.
 390                 </p>
 391                 <p>
 391                   John denied that he was (or would be) a risk to your well being and proper development and
                       Mary supported him in this, always maintaining that he had been wrongly convicted in the
                       first place of these serious offences.
 391                 </p>
 392                 <p>
 392                   As a result of going before the Court charged with these offences, John spent 18 months in a
                       Young Offenders Prison.
 392                 </p>
 393                 <p>
 393                   Both your birth parents declined to co-operate in the psychological and other assessment,
                       which the local authority proposed to them. However, the first Court hearing in November
                       2000 was postponed when your birth father agreed, at the last minute, to undertake a "risk
                       assessment" before two selected experts (one of his choosing, one of ours) but in the event,
                       for his own reasons (which are unknown to me), he decided not to proceed.
 393                 </p>
 394                 <p>
 394                   When the Court reconvened in December 2000 the Judge gave his approval to the Care Order,
                       which gave us legal responsibility to secure your future with an adoptive family - namely
                       Eric, Stephanie and Ellen.
 394                 </p>
 395                 <p class="bold">
 395                   YOUR FIRST FOSTER PLACEMENT:
 395                 </p>
 396                 <p>
 396                   On 14 May, you left the hospital and I arranged for you to be collected by your foster
                       carers Lyn and Pete, who took you to their home in Wakefield.
 396                 </p>
 397                 <p>
 397                   Lyn and Pete looked after you very well, loving and caring for you as if you were their own
                       son.
 397                 </p>
 398                 <p>
 398                   From 17 May to 4 June Mary visited you for up to four hours every weekday morning at the
                       foster home. Later she found work and her contact with you was varied to one hour three
                       times per week in the evenings, but still at Lyn and Pete's home.
 398                 </p>
 399                 <p>
 399                   During her visits, Mary handled you very lovingly and caringly, feeding and cuddling you.
 399                 </p>
 400                 <p>
 400                   John saw you every fortnight for one hour at a Social Services office in Wakefield. These
                       contacts were always supervised by me. John was always pleased to see you, and often bounced
                       you on his knee and held your bottle if you needed to be fed. He seemed less spontaneous
                       than Mary, possibly because he saw you less often, and these contacts were always in the
                       presence of a social worker. The contacts continued until 20 October after which John
                       decided he could not come and see you again.
 400                 </p>
 401                 <p>
 401                   In your "Life Story Book" (put together lovingly by Lyn and Pete) you have photographs taken
                       of Mary, John and yourself during some of these contact visits.
 401                 </p>
 402                 <p class="bold">
 402                   MARY'S FAMILY AND EARLY HISTORY:
 402                 </p>
 403                 <p>
 403                   Mary, your birth mother was born on 4 October 1976. She was the second eldest of three
                       daughters. The family lived in an isolated "tied" cottage. Mary's father (your maternal
                       grandfather) worked long hours as a farm labourer and her mother (your maternal grandmother)
                       was a semi-invalid due to persistent ill health who would venture no further than the local
                       market town once a week to do her shopping.
 403                 </p>
 404                 <p>
 404                   These are the people in Mary's family:
 404                 </p>
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 406                   <tbody>
 407                     <tr>
 408                       <td>
 408                         Her father
 408                       </td>
 409                       <td>
 409                         David
 409                       </td>
 410                       <td>
 410                         d.o.b. 29.12.46
 410                       </td>
 411                     </tr>
 412                     <tr>
 413                       <td>
 413                         Her mother
 413                       </td>
 414                       <td>
 414                         Ann
 414                       </td>
 415                       <td>
 415                         d.o.b. 13.10.48
 415                       </td>
 416                     </tr>
 417                     <tr>
 418                       <td>
 418                         Her sister
 418                       </td>
 419                       <td>
 419                         Jane
 419                       </td>
 420                       <td>
 420                         d.o.b. 13.9.83
 420                       </td>
 421                     </tr>
 422                     <tr>
 423                       <td>
 423                         Her sister
 423                       </td>
 424                       <td>
 424                         Liza
 424                       </td>
 425                       <td>
 425                         d.o.b. 24.4.80
 425                       </td>
 426                     </tr>
 427                   </tbody>
 428                 </table>
 429                 <p>
 429                   Jane is now married and living in Calderdale; Liza is still living with her parents.
 429                 </p>
 430                 <p>
 430                   Mary left home in 1994 and gave birth to her first child, Hazel, in 1995. She was at that
                       time being supervised by another social worker and was living in supportive lodgings. Later
                       she found a flat of her own. Hazel's father, Gavin moved in with her and they eventually
                       were married in April 1997. I actually knew Mary during this period and it was a very
                       difficult time for her in many ways. She lived with Gavin and Hazel in a very small upstairs
                       flat and due to the lack of any regular income there was always a shortage of money to buy
                       things in the family. As a result Mary had very angry arguments with Gavin. In the early
                       part of 2000 she decided to leave Gavin taking Hazel with her. After a few days she returned
                       to Gavin to leave Hazel with him. In January 2000 Mary and Gavin were divorced and Hazel
                       continued to live with Gavin.
 430                 </p>
 431                 <p>
 431                   Hazel is your half sister and she was born on 4 July 1995.
 431                 </p>
 432                 <p>
 432                   I always found your mother Mary to be a shy rather quiet person. As a young child she was
                       assessed at quite an early age as having special education needs and she went to a school in
                       Leeds, which she left at 16. Physically she was approximately 5ft 4ins tall and of slender
                       build. She had a fair complexion with short brown hair and blue eyes. Mary was not married
                       to John at the time of your birth but they have since married and still live together as far
                       as I know.
 432                 </p>
 433                 <p class="bold">
 433                   JOHN'S FAMILY AND EARLY HISTORY:
 433                 </p>
 434                 <p>
 434                   Your birth father John was born on 1 October 1977. He is the eldest of 5 children (three
                       younger brothers and one younger sister).
 434                 </p>
 435                 <p>
 435                   The family details are as follows:
 435                 </p>
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 437                   <tbody>
 438                     <tr>
 439                       <td>
 439                         His father
 439                       </td>
 440                       <td>
 440                         Charles
 440                       </td>
 441                       <td>
 441                         d.o.b.11.11.55
 441                       </td>
 442                     </tr>
 443                     <tr>
 444                       <td>
 444                         His mother
 444                       </td>
 445                       <td>
 445                         Theresa
 445                       </td>
 446                       <td>
 446                         d.o.b. 23.9.57
 446                       </td>
 447                     </tr>
 448                     <tr>
 449                       <td>
 449                         His brother
 449                       </td>
 450                       <td>
 450                         Edward
 450                       </td>
 451                       <td>
 451                         d.o.b. 23.8.78
 451                       </td>
 452                     </tr>
 453                     <tr>
 454                       <td>
 454                         His brother
 454                       </td>
 455                       <td>
 455                         Robert
 455                       </td>
 456                       <td>
 456                         d.o.b. 19.4.82
 456                       </td>
 457                     </tr>
 458                     <tr>
 459                       <td>
 459                         His sister
 459                       </td>
 460                       <td>
 460                         Tracey
 460                       </td>
 461                       <td>
 461                         d.o.b. 7.8.84
 461                       </td>
 462                     </tr>
 463                     <tr>
 464                       <td>
 464                         His brother
 464                       </td>
 465                       <td>
 465                         Peter
 465                       </td>
 466                       <td>
 466                         d.o.b. 26.8.87
 466                       </td>
 467                     </tr>
 468                   </tbody>
 469                 </table>
 470                 <p>
 470                   The family used to live in Cumbria and it was whilst living here that the serious offences
                       for which John was sent to prison took place. At the time of the investigations, John's
                       brother Edward was also convicted for similar offences.
 470                 </p>
 471                 <p>
 471                   As a direct result Robert, Tracey and Peter were made subject to Place of Safety (Emergency
                       Protection Order) and went to live with foster carers. In December 1998 Care Orders were
                       granted to Cumbria County Council. Now they are 18 years of age Robert and Tracey are
                       independent. Robert has remained as a lodger in his foster home, and Tracey is living
                       locally in her own flat.
 471                 </p>
 472                 <p>
 472                   Theresa (your paternal grandmother) left Charles (your paternal grandfather) and their home
                       in early 1997. In November 1999 she remarried and lives near Leeds. Charles (your paternal
                       grandfather) has also entered a new relationship and lives in Bradford.
 472                 </p>
 473                 <p>
 473                   Your father John married Kate (d.o.b. 29.10.75) in early 1994 when he was still at school.
 473                 </p>
 474                 <p>
 474                   They had three children - your half brothers and sister
 474                 </p>
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 476                   <tbody>
 477                     <tr>
 478                       <td>
 478                         Michael
 478                       </td>
 479                       <td>
 479                         d.o.b. 11.6.94
 479                       </td>
 480                     </tr>
 481                     <tr>
 482                       <td>
 482                         Harriet
 482                       </td>
 483                       <td>
 483                         d.o.b. 14.9.95
 483                       </td>
 484                     </tr>
 485                     <tr>
 486                       <td>
 486                         James
 486                       </td>
 487                       <td>
 487                         d.o.b. 17.8.96
 487                       </td>
 488                     </tr>
 489                   </tbody>
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 491                 <p>
 491                   This family lived in Cumbria until January 1997 when Kate was advised by Social Services
                       Department to leave, and not allow John back into her new home.
 491                 </p>
 492                 <p>
 492                   Following his release from custody in July 1997 John had relationships with several young
                       women and it was necessary for Social Services Department to intervene and alert them to the
                       concerns regarding John.
 492                 </p>
 493                 <p>
 493                   In my contact with John I always found him very polite and well spoken. Physically he was
                       approximately 5ft 10ins tall broad shouldered and of a strong build. His complexion was fair
                       with brown eyes. John attended High School where he studied subjects to GCSE level. After
                       leaving school he worked in electronics as a trainee system engineer.
 493                 </p>
 494                 <p>
 494                   In his spare time he enjoyed clay pigeon and both target and "rough" shooting, and at
                       weekends he ran a successful mobile disco for local pubs and parties etc.
 494                 </p>
 495                 <p>
 495                   Joshua - I saw you on the day you were born and later I saw you very regularly whilst you
                       were at Lyn and Pete's house. I also saw you in the early stages of your placement with your
                       parents and after your adoption by them.
 495                 </p>
 496                 <p>
 496                   You were always a responsive alert baby. You smiled and vocalised a great deal. You seemed
                       to me to be very happy and lovable, eager to discover and get on with things. You walked,
                       talked and did everything young children should do, at the right time. There were no
                       concerns about your health or developmental progress to my knowledge.
 496                 </p>
 497                 <p>
 497                   Lyn and Pete loved you a lot and were very sad for a while when the time came for you to
                       move on to live with your parents.
 497                 </p>
 498                 <p>
 498                   I hope that the information I have given will give you some of the answers to the many
                       questions that may arise in your mind as you grow older and which you must discuss with your
                       parents and/or social worker.
 498                 </p>
 499                 <p>
 499                   The future "chapters" of your life are for you to write together with your parents and
                       Ellen.
 499                 </p>
 500                 <p>
 500                   Signed
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